“But love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High. For He is kind to the unthankful and evil. Therefore be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful.” (Luke 6:35-36 NKJV)

Have you ever considered the fact that you overlooking a hateful or sarcastic remark from someone, or being nice to someone who is not usually nice to you, is you showing, “Mercy?” Showing mercy, kindness and generosity will eventually turn the heart of your adversary toward you and point them to the Lord.

Showing mercy is also a healing agent for you. As you make it a point to show mercy, kindness and generosity toward someone who is unkind toward you, your heart is protected from the hurt that usually comes along with someone’s abrasive remarks. It’s not that your heart becomes hard and just able to take the abuse; rather it’s more like a salve that covers and protects your heart, and keeps it tender. Again, it’s not that you’re, “just taking it,” but rather, you’re on a mission of mercy to make a difference in someone’s life.

Don’t give up on showing mercy. Your mercy, kindness and generosity shown to someone else is a witness for your Lord; plus, God rewards the merciful in wonderful ways.

Check out what the Apostle Paul says in Romans 12:

“Don’t hit back; discover beauty in everyone. If you’ve got it in you, get along with everybody. Don’t insist on getting even; that’s not for you to do. “I’ll do the judging,” says God. “I’ll take care of it.” — “Our Scriptures tell us that if you see your enemy hungry, go buy that person lunch, or if he’s thirsty, get him a drink. Your generosity will surprise him with goodness. Don’t let evil get the best of you; get the best of evil by doing good.” (Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭17-21‬ MSG)

– Pastor H. Gene Allen

“The value of a man resides in what he gives and not what he is capable of receiving.” ~ Albert Einstein

“It is the mark of a true saint that his sorrows remind him of his sins, and his sorrow for sin, drives him to his God.” ~ Charles H. Spurgeon

“If your Gospel isn’t touching others, it hasn’t touched you!” ~ Curry R. Blake

“Adversity is another way to measure the greatness of individuals. I never had a crisis that didn’t make me stronger.” ~ Lou Holtz

“If you aren’t fired with enthusiasm, you will be fired with enthusiasm.” ~ Vince Lombardi

“Whatever you can do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.” ~ Goethe

“There are a lot of people that want to be a chandelier in God’s living room, but they are not willing to be a night light in His hall.” ~ T.F. Tenny

“A man who won’t die for something is not fit to live.” ~ Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

“The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person’s determination.” ~ Tommy Lasorda

“Faith is taking the first step even when you don’t see the whole staircase.” ~ Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

“Faithless is he that says farewell when the road darkens.” ~ Tolkien

“Anything God has ever done, He can do now. Anything God has ever done anywhere, He can do here. Anything God has ever done for anyone, He can do for you.” ~ A.W. Tozer

“Holding grudges is letting someone live rent-free in your head. Space is limited, so let it go!” ~ Unknown

“You can get everything in life you want if you help enough other people get what they want.” ~ Zig Ziglar

“There are seldom, if ever, any hopeless situations, but there are many people whose lose hope in the face of some situations.” ~ Zig Ziglar

“Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead a second-rate version of someone else.” ~ Judy Garland

“Worship leaders are change agents! ‘Let me write the songs of a nation and I care not who writes the laws.’” ~ attr. to Plato

“You cannot make the weak man strong by making the strong man weak.” ~ Abraham Lincoln  (People who make over $250 provide most of the jobs.)

“It is weak and despicable to go on wanting things and not trying to get them.” ~ Joanna Field

“The vision must be followed by venture. It is not enough to stare up the steps, we must step up the stairs.” ~ Vance Havner

“A vision without action is only a dream; action without a dream is drudgery. ~ Ike Reighard

“There are no victories at bargain prices.” ~ General Dwight D. Eisenhower

“Success occurs when opportunity meets preparation.” ~ Zig Ziglar

“Most people who succeed in the face of seemingly impossible conditions are people who simply don’t know how to quit.” Reverend Dr. Robert Schuller

“Live out your imagination, not your history.” Stephen Covey

“Don’t make circumstances or the opinion of others the source of your joy; keep focused on pleasing God, the source of unending joy!” ~ Reverend Ben Daily

“Significance trumps success.” ~ Neil Kennedy

“Life’s most persistent and urgent question is, ‘What are you doing for others?’” ~ Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

“You generate the results in your life that you think you deserve.” ~ Dr. Phil McGraw  (We need to raise our personal expectations.)

“To be a Christian without prayer is no more possible than to be alive without breathing.” ~ Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

“If you are not praying, then you are quietly confident that time, money and talent are all you need in life.” ~ adapted from P. Miller

“When the illusion of control disappears, we become men and women of prayer.” ~ Unknown

“When you look at the possibilities instead of the problems, the future is filled with endless opportunities.” ~ Zig Ziglar

“Beware when personal desire trumps the will of God.” ~ Missionary Bill Moore

“The most pathetic person in the world is someone who has sight, but has no vision.” ~ Helen Keller

“Discover what your organization is best at and focus on it! Avoid attempting too many projects.” ~ Chris Forbes

“Lack of motivation comes from a lack of hope.” ~ Dave Ramsey

“Mountaintops inspire leaders, but valleys mature them.” ~ Sir Winston Churchill

“We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future.” ~ George Bernard Shaw

“Leaders must be close enough to relate to others, but far enough ahead to motivate them.” ~ John Maxwell

“Leaders will not experience long-term success unless a lot of people want them to.” ~ Dr. John Maxwell

“If anything becomes more fundamental than God to your happiness, meaning in life and identity, then it is an idol.” ~ Tim Keller

“A happy person  is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes.” ~ Kelly Gutierres

“The individual activity of one man with backbone will do more than a thousand men with a mere wishbone.” ~ William Boetcker

“The right man is the one who seizes the moment.” ~ Goethe

“When it is obvious that the goals cannot be reached, don’t adjust the goals, adjust the actions.” ~ Confucius

“Two sure ways to fail: Think and never do, or do and never think.” ~ Zig Ziglar

“There is a lot of blood, sweat and guts between dreams and success.” ~ Paul Bryant

“The day our memories become larger than our dreams, is the day our soul begins to shrink.” ~ Ike Reighard

“He who has done his best for his own time has lived for all times.” ~ Johann von Schiller, Playwright

Cowardice ask: Is it safe?

Consensus ask: Is it popular?

Character ask: Is it right?

~ Reverend Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

About Me…

* Bond-Servant of the Most High God.

* Son of a wonderful Mom who has been very supportive and encouraging to me my entire life, and a person who has always told me the truth about what she sees in me. (My Dad is deceased.)

* Husband of one wife, the love of my life, who has been a great inspiration to me for the past 25 years. A beautiful lady who has been willing to travel down the same sacrificial road.

* Daddy to three beautiful daughters who have to be my greatest success story. They are more intelligent and more creative than I am. They are all serving the Lord and working in ministry. I also have a great Son-in-law who I am very proud to call my “First Son.”

* Pastor to a wonderful congregation in whom I feel their love and support, and whom I love dearly and am very humbled to be their servant-leader. We are a great team who still have a lot to accomplish together.

As a minister, I feel like I am in that last generation of the “old school” preachers. I love all the new technology and many of the new ways of doing church, and still yet, I long for those old fashion Holy Ghost meetings that I was in as a kid. I still love altar calls and lingering around the altars watching people seek for more of God. I love demonstrative preaching, and I love teaching-type, laid-back, styles of preaching; but don’t tell me that only the new, more casual way of doing things is the ONLY way church will work today. (I had one guy look at our church and tell me that we wouldn’t grow because we had greenery on the stage and a communion table in front of the pulpit. Maybe he’s right.) I believe it all can work, because God is in charge of it all and has distributed each persons gifts and styles. I personally believe that it is prayer and the presence of God that really builds a church.

I feel, sometimes, out-of-place. I am an old soul and enjoy preaching, praying and pastoring people. I like being with my people; smelling like my sheep. I am big on building relationships and being in touch with the folks I serve. I still like a hymn and a testimony service every once and a while. I’m apt to call for a “Jericho March!” Though I like owning and driving fine automobiles, I feel more like a pickup truck and boots type of preacher, than a skinny, square-toed loafers and Lexus lead-pastor. And that is no slam against the new. I wish I could look that good; and I actually have two pair of square-toed loafers. I am just more “old school.” And, I still believe God uses us all to do His work!

On my tombstone…

“He was a faithful servant of God and a fun husband, daddy, poppa and friend.”

Other Interest…

I love spending time with my family.

I enjoy shooting. I have a small gun collection and have my “carry-conceal” permit. My daily carry is a Taurus Millennium PT 111 Pro – 9 mm.

I enjoy automobiles. I have a large collection of die-cast model autos. I have also been blessed to own some nice vehicles. Right now I have a 1965 Ford 500 with only 58,000 miles on it. I am the third owner. The first owner owned it from 1965-2000. I have all paperwork and original owners manual. It’s fun to drive, but no power-steering.

I recently sold my 1990 Mercedes-Benz 300 SEL which I loved and am still upset with myself for selling it. I was the second owner. UGH! It makes me mad thinking about it!  Moving on…

I am not a good mechanic, but have just always loved messing with cars. And I love owning and driving fine automobiles. I love it, but I haven’t yet got my checkbook convinced of it.

I also enjoy preaching outside my pulpit. I enjoy traveling for revivals, teaching conferences and special services. Give me a call…I’m pretty cheap.

My family is my number ONE interest. I am in love with my wife and think my three girls and my son-in-law are the very best! I am very excited about becoming a Grandfather in September 2010!

Outside of my church work, I pretty much spend most of my time with my family. We do lots of family dinners, movies, traveling and other activities together. We are very close and I love it being that way.

I enjoy studying theology, Hebrew and Greek, and leadership. I also enjoy writing, though my goal is to do more of it. Still working on the whole “time-management” issue.

That is probably more information than you cared about reading. Talk to you soon!

Gene

Well, my 2010 has not started as I had planned. As a matter of fact, I really haven’t started my new year at all! I have been home since Christmas week. Sick! No, not “Sick!” as in “good,” or “cool.” But “Sick” as in “I have been sick with pneumonia for over two weeks now!” So, as the world has celebrated the new year and started their New Years Resolutions, I have been home praying every night that the next day I will be able to begin mine.

I went back to the doctor this past Thursday and there it was as plain as day, pneumonia still showing up in the x-ray. I have a large mass of pneumonia in my lower right lobe/lung.

New medication. “Well man, you’ve been on the wrong medication.” This is what my family doctor told me. The Rheumatoid doctor placed me on a medication that wasn’t effective for the area of the pneumonia that’s inside me. “RA docs aren’t as up on antibiotics because they don’t deal with these issues everyday,” so my family doc says.  So, I am on a new round of high power antibiotics which should work, and if they don’t? A Brother has to visit the hospital for a few days. These medications better work!

Having Rheumatoid Arthritis, which causes your immune system to eat your joints, I have to take medications that will suppress my immune system. Thus, infections are very common. Actually though, I have been very blessed. I have not had an active immune system in two years, and this is the first time I have been sick. But boy when I do it, I do it up right!

I am praying for my complete healing, and I believe with every cell that is in me that God is able to heal me completely. I stand upon God’s promises.

Well, God knew I would be getting pneumonia at this time in my life. Why He allowed it, I do not know; however, I pursue God in every way that I am able. While at home I am praying and reading. I am at least soaking up information that will help me when I am able to begin my new year.

So now, we move forward. I have realized that there are some things in my life; things from my past, and some old ways of thinking, that I cannot take with me into this new year. I also realize that there are some things that God is wanting me to change about myself as I enter this new season of life. I have to do the hard work of making these changes so that I can please God and live in His blessing!

What about you? What do you need to forget? What do you need to change? What do you need to add to your life? Pray about it; consider it and do it. You know, I trust God and I believe in me and you to make these changes. 2010 will be a better year!

My prayer is that God will richly bless everyone whose eyes fall upon this blog.

Good Morning and Happy Sunday to you all!

Pastor Gene

Gene & Maria8On June 29, 2009,

Maria and I celebrated 25 years of marriage and it has been an amazing experience; perhaps, more like an “Amazing Grace” experience.

We married very young. I don’t recommend that, and I’m certainly glad our children didn’t follow in our footsteps.

Maria was sixteen and I was eighteen. We were in love, maybe “puppy love” at first, but by the time we were engaged and then married, we were truly in love.  I remember the first time I saw her – Have Mercy! She was a beautiful sight, and she is still the most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes on. If there is such a thing as a soul mate, she is mine. She is the person I believe that God gave me for a lifetime of matrimony. Yet with all that said we probably should have waited to get married. And though there is no doubt in my mind that we were in love, looking back, we were just too young to be married and really didn’t understand what the act of marriage entailed. Well, I take that back; we understood one thing!

One problem we had early on was that neither of us knew how to be married. Now, at sixteen and eighteen, who does right? Well, we had NO idea. Maria’s dad abandoned her family when she was 9 years old. Because her dad wasn’t in the home, she doesn’t remember seeing her mom be a wife. This role of “wife” was not modeled before her. My dad was a cross-country truck driver and was on the road most of the time. When he was home, he wasn’t very affectionate to neither my mom nor his children. He left our family, and my parents divorced when I was 13 years old. Because my dad was pretty much out of the picture most of my childhood, the role of “husband” was not appropriately modeled before me. I didn’t know how to be a husband to Maria, and she didn’t know how to be a wife to me. So Maria and I came together young, immature and knowing very little about the roles we were supposed to be living out.

I’ve said jokingly that Maria and I have been happily married 15 years; married 25 years, but happily married 15 years. Well that is not exactly true, but we have had some major difficulties over the years. We have hurt each other probably every way a couple can possibly hurt each other. There have been some very hard days, weeks, months; and we have even had some bad years. There have been those days that we have contemplated divorce; some days, murder! And yet, we are still together.

I believe that our marriage is a picture of grace. It is what grace looks like. On those days that we did not feel in love, when there we no funny fuzzes in our tummies, when we couldn’t stand the sight of each other; during those times that we didn’t like each other, we made a choice to stay together and keep loving each another. Was this easy? Not at all! Many days it was brutal. But we stayed, and worked, and pushed, and pulled until one day was a little smoother than the last, and finally we got to the other side of the conflict. Honestly, we still occasionally have tough days, but we know we love each other and that our marriage is worth working on. And that is a major key to a successful marriage, working on it every day to make it the very best it can be.

Love is a decision, not a feeling. Love is a commitment that we choose to make and keep every day. I don’t always feel like I am in love, but I know I love Maria. I’ve decided to love her no matter what.

Today I love Maria more than I have ever loved her and I know that she loves me. Yes, we have made a lot of mistakes and have hurt each other in horrific ways, but God’s grace has been sufficient to see us through each situation. In those times of hurt and disappointment, we have had to learn to repent, forgive and move on. And it has only happened by the grace of God.

It’s not always easy; it can be very hard work, but I hope you will decide to love.

Proverbs 5:15-19

15 Do you know the saying, “Drink from your own rain barrel, draw water from your own spring-fed well”? 16 It’s true. Otherwise, you may one day come home and find your barrel empty and your well polluted. 17 Your spring water is for you and you only, not to be passed around among strangers. 18 Bless your fresh-flowing fountain! Enjoy the wife you married as a young man! 19 Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose — don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted! (THE MESSAGE)

Hello Friends:

Excuses First.

First, let me apologize for not blogging more frequently. It has been a crazy three weeks. The following is why I haven’t been better about blogging in the recent past.

Three weeks ago, I had members in hospital and a funeral on Friday. I flew out on a Saturday to Michigan for a Writer’s Conference; was gone a week and had absolutely no time to blog during that conference which had sessions morning, afternoon and night. I came back home to more folks in hospital, then the internet on our church campus went down for about a week. This week has been more hospital time, surgeries, a death and a funeral. During this time, however, I have been keeping notes and do have some information to share. I hope to get it out soon.

Today is Saturday, July 4th, and I finally have some time that I hope I can fill with writing. I actually hope to post at least one other blog this afternoon.

Independence Day!

I was raised to be patriotic; my parents made certain that my sister and I had a clear understanding of our American blessing. My Grandfather Dodd was a career military man. My Dad served in both the Army and Marines. I have a host of other family members who were soldiers. I absolutely understand and appreciate my freedoms as an American citizen. I love Lee Greenwood’s song and would like to quote the chorus for you here today. I suppose it sums up my feelings about this grand Independence Day.

And I’m proud to be an American where at least I know I’m free.
And I won’t forget the men who died, who gave that right to me.
And I’d gladly stand up next to you and defend her still today.
‘Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land God bless the U.S.A. 

I sign off now with this quote from our beloved President Ronald Reagan. “Freedom is a fragile thing and is never more than one generation from extinction. It is not ours by inheritance; it must be fought for and defended constantly by each generation, for it comes only once to a people. Those who have known freedom, and then lost it, have never known it again.”

Thank you for following along with me. Have a great Fourth of July weekend.

God bless you and may God bless America!

Pastor Gene

“God, make a fresh start in me, shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life. 11 Don’t throw me out with the trash, or fail to breathe holiness in me. 12 Bring me back from gray exile, put a fresh wind in my sails!”  Psalms 51:10-12 (THE MESSAGE)

This morning when I woke up, my heart was heavy. I knew why; I was feeling guilty. I had sin in my life. In a moment I will confess all; but first, when you hear what my sin is you might think I’m being too hard on myself. It’s easy to justify our actions and minimize them by making excuses. But sin is sin; and I have sinned.

My sin? Lack of a consistent prayer life; lack of Bible reading; lack of personal time with God; lack of faith. I am a pastor. To whom much is given much is required. God expects more from me than what I have been giving Him. It’s been about six weeks.

Here is my prayer.

V. 10: “God, make a fresh start in me…” – “Father, it’s time to do what is right. I repent of my slothfulness; my unbecomingness a minister of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I want to start all over. Please help me start all over. I want to be pure; I want to be righteous. I will need your help every day of my life. This is my weakness; the place the devil can distract me. I rely on you.”

V. 10: “shape a Genesis week from the chaos of my life.” – “Father God, out of my sin, help me create a stopping place, then a beginning place for your grace and forgiveness. Today is a new day! My life will never be the same because of your fresh grace, and my hard work and steadfast faithfulness to consistently do as You desire of me.”

V.11: “Don’t throw me out with the trash…” – “Father in my old state of mind I was worthless to you. I don’t want to be as waste to you. I don’t want to be fruitless and be thrown away like the chaff. I desire to be something of great worth to you, and do much good for Your cause. I want to be involved in building your Kingdom.

V. 11: Don’t “fail to breathe holiness in me.” – “Lord, You are holy so I must be holy. I cannot keep from sinning without Your Holy Spirit in my life. I need Your power to help me become holy so that I can stay in Your presence. Breathe into me righteousness, and help me hunger and thirst for it continually. Holy Spirit, refresh me!”

V. 12: “Bring me back from gray exile…” – “Lord help me understand from now on that there are no gray areas, but that I must live exactly like you desire me to live. There is no argument; I must not compare myself with anyone else. You expect of me exactly what You expect of me and I must live up to those expectations. And I can Lord, with Your help. Help me hear from You daily that I may know exactly what Your desire is for my life. It is when I hear from You, and live as You desire me too, that I am made to have great joy and satisfaction.”

V. 12: “put a fresh wind in my sails!” – “Holy Spirit breathe on me and sustain me. Lift me above the choppy waters of life. May my spirit and Your Spirit be in unison and may we soar high together. May I never be brought down low again because of my own making. Keep me pure!”

In Jesus name, Amen.

If you need to pray this for your own life, do it right now.

God bless you!

Gene

Gene & Maria3Today has been “Me and My Maria Day!”  First, we slept late. Do you know how nice it feels to not set an alarm? Well, we had that privilege this morning. I won’t say how late we slept, but it was very nice and afterward, I did feel a little guilty.

We ate a late lunch at Olive Garden; they have the best soup, salad and breadsticks don’t they? I had Steak Toscana and Maria had the Lasagna Rollitini. It was excellent! I had to laugh at Maria; I’m always teasing her about being “HM,” (High Maintenance). So during lunch there were three breadsticks left. She says to me, “If you see our waiter again, tell him we need some more breadsticks.”  I said, “But we still have three breadsticks left.” She responded, “Yes, but they’re hard and we need some fresh ones.” So guess what? We got some fresh breadsticks; and for $50 bucks, Maria should have all the fresh breadsticks she wants!  No dessert there, because we had another stop.

Dessert was popcorn and soda at Warren Theater! We saw “Up!” in 3D. It was a packed theater, but the movie was great. It’s all cartoon, and I’m really not into the Disney type kid’s movies, but this one is really good. They say it’s better than “Toy Story;” however, that might be a stretch. A child would have to be the judge of that. I’d recommend it though. I’ve honestly never seen a movie in 3D before, so I thought it was really cool.

Second dessert was a shared Turtle Concrete from Freddie’s. We’ll start counting the calories again on Monday.

It’s been about an hour since the concrete, and as I’m writing, Maria is setting in her chair eating a green popsicle. (I just told her I wrote that and she’s laughing and saying you guys are probably going to think she’s a pig.)

So that has been our Saturday! It’s been fun and relaxing. Married couples need to make sure that they take time out for time together; and they should try to do it at least once each week. You need that time to recognize and reaffirm who you are as a couple. I believe that you need, “Many mini vacations.” Today, Maria and I had a “mini vacation.” Take the time to be alone together and enjoy each other’s company. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how much it will enrich your lives and remind you of your love.

Sunday’s coming and

It’s been fun sharing. I hope you have a great Saturday evening, and rest very well tonight.

Plan now for church tomorrow, and say a prayer for the church service and your pastor. Go to church expecting God to move in your life in a great way, and He’ll do just that.

God bless!

Gene

Hello to all my readers!

Well, this is it; my Alpha Blog. My first in the world of blogging. I admit that this will stretch me some. A good stretch takes a lot of energy, some weird twist and sometimes crazy facial expressions, but when it is over, you always feel really good! I hope after you experience my blogs that you will feel something good; at least encouraged and perhaps even driven to think a little deeper.

I would call today’s snap-shot of my personal big picture, transitional. I am not in transition, but it seems that a lot of elements that surround me are.

Transition: My youngest daughter just graduated high school; about 10 more weeks home and she moves to Springfield, MO to attend Evangel University. That’s BIG! That’s my baby girl moving six hours away! I have to be honest, it’s been pretty tough on me and Mom. She is enrolled and accepted; scholarships galore (thank you Jesus!); now, dorm room shopping. We’re excited, and a little sad.

Transition: My oldest daughter graduates from Mid-America Christian University in December. She will become an elementary school teacher. We are so excited for her; and then again, I can hardly believe she could be graduating from University. Where has time gone?

Transition: I feel like the church I serve is in a transition. Two steps forward, one step back; and yet, it seems that we are on the edge of what is going to be a tremendous revival. We are praying and planning for it. We are repositioning people, hiring new staff, strategizing outreach opportunities and praying that some of the other gaps will be filled. We know that God has something big in store. Yet, I have to be honest, some of this transition has caused me some pain and some concern. It has forced me to go afraid. It has caused me to use faith that I honestly didn’t know that I had. But we are now beginning to see the pain turn to praise. Brokenness and barrenness is now turning into fruitfulness.

God will always be moving and stretching you. Don’t fight the stretch! Let God mold and make you into what He wants you to be. Have you ever stretched real big, like after you wake up in the morning, and the stretching kind of hurts? Well, God stretching you may hurt just a little, but after the brief adjustment, you are going to feel better than you have in a long while. Let God do what He wants to do in your life. You’ll be better than ever!

“Can’t I do just as this potter does, people of Israel?” God’s Decree! “Watch this potter. In the same way that this potter works his clay, I work on you, people of Israel.”  Jeremiah 18:6  THE MESSAGE

Happy Days!

Pastor Gene